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How to Set and Achieve Goals as a Memory Caregiver: Diary of Dazey D 2024

Updated: Sep 14

When considering the goal of undermining great care, it is essential to delve into the motivations behind such actions. By seeking to undermine great care, individuals may be attempting to disrupt the stability and trust that is typically associated with quality care. This can result in a sense of unease and uncertainty within a beloved space, which is meant to be a sanctuary of comfort and security.


Moreover, the notion of attempting to control things that do not exist can lead to a distortion of reality and a detachment from the genuine needs of those receiving care. This can ultimately result in a decline in the quality of care provided, as the focus shifts from genuine compassion and support to manipulation and pretenses.


Furthermore, the idea of replacing a caregiver raises questions about the intentions behind such a decision and the potential consequences for the individual in need of care. Who would take on the role of caregiver, and what qualifications or motivations would they bring to the table?


Ultimately, the gain from undermining great care may not be immediately apparent, as it can lead to a breakdown in trust, communication, and the overall well-being of those involved. In situations where the chosen caregiver is unable to provide the peace and support needed, it raises concerns about who would step in to ensure that essential aspect of care is maintained.




I take great care at what expense?

When I agreed all those years ago to be the forever, ride-or-die girl, I thought I knew what I was agreeing to.

The last 8 days and all the grouped-up challenges of the past, I ask:

Is this the best solution moving forward?

My involvement is now questioned by me - what needs to change?

The prideful cries of 'you are controlling others' - is it time for the others to step in and do what I have been unable to achieve?

As I'm failing her and all others - maybe that is the new question:


During times when I am unable to be present, it is crucial to consider who will take on the responsibilities that I usually handle. This question prompts reflection on the individuals in my life or within my organization who have the capability and willingness to step up in my absence. It speaks to the importance of having a support system or a reliable team that can fill in when needed. By asking this question, I am acknowledging the interconnectedness of our actions and the impact they have on those around us. It underscores the idea of collaboration and mutual aid, highlighting the significance of having a network of people who can support each other in times of need. Ultimately, pondering on who will step up in my stead is a reminder of the value of teamwork, trust, and preparedness in navigating life's challenges.




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