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Adapting to Change: A Memory Caregiver's Diary in 2024

Updated: Sep 15

This post is a work in progress, but I love the message.





“Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored.”

Reality and perceived control.

The common themes in this Dazey Diary:
  • Vague accusations

  • Unrealistic expectations

  • Lack of understanding

  • Lack of real communication




It is a significant shift in perspective to realize that the burden of explaining daily struggles or challenges no longer rests on my shoulders. Instead of feeling compelled to educate others about the intricacies of navigating each hour or day, I have come to understand that resources like Google or specialized classes on Alzheimer's awareness can serve as valuable tools for those seeking to broaden their knowledge. Embracing the concept of change as an inevitable part of life, it becomes clear that what was once familiar may no longer be the same, prompting a need for adaptation and acceptance.


My primary focus now lies in safeguarding the well-being and contentment of the individual under my care, rather than catering to external influences or demands of The Others. By prioritizing the health and happiness of those within our community, I am better equipped to provide a nurturing environment that fosters a sense of security and support. This shift in mindset underscores the importance of creating a space where residents can thrive and feel valued, free from the pressures of external expectations.



“Someone pushing you to be better is not an attack.”

The push that led us all to this point was for the one I am honored to be connected to and respect each day for getting up and living the 'weirdest' experiences to date.


“Do you know how weird it is to feel your brain shrinking?”

The push was to help others stay connected in a way beneficial to her and maybe even for them... I mean, the hope was there; the reality was harsh.




There will be more on this when time permits but I'll leave it with this…




Changes are indeed inevitable when it comes to the daily care and communication challenges associated with memory loss, especially in the context of caring for individuals affected by Alzheimer's disease. The impact of memory loss on communication can be profound, as it often requires caregivers to adapt their approach and techniques to effectively connect with their loved ones.


It is imperative to acknowledge that individuals outside the realm of memory loss may struggle to grasp the full scope of challenges faced by those dealing with this condition, particularly Alzheimer's disease. The complexities involved in caring for someone with memory loss extend far beyond what meets the eye, encompassing a myriad of emotional, psychological, and practical obstacles that can significantly impact both the affected individual and their caregivers.


Furthermore, the importance of adaptability in navigating these challenges cannot be emphasized enough. Caregivers and family members must be prepared to explore and adopt new techniques and communication methods, even if they initially seem unconventional or unfamiliar. Embracing these changes allows caregivers to cultivate a more empathetic and supportive environment, fostering stronger connections and enhancing the overall quality of life for those grappling with memory loss.


To effectively assist individuals in coping with the daily struggles associated with memory loss, caregivers must establish a sense of emotional security and understanding. This safe space not only aids in addressing the practical aspects of daily living but also plays a crucial role in promoting overall well-being and mental health.




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