‘Claiming victim and not taking responsibility for why…’ is the current accusation.
The only victim is The One. To read that blog post and respond with this means you are part of the problem, not the solution.
To know of the ‘action taken at a traumatic time’ means you are one of the others. The truth and nothing but the truth mentality is strong with contempt of a letter sent begging for routine and consistency where communication had long been broken by more than 1 1/2 years. The letter was 3 months in the making through an attorney who specializes in such things to bring communication back ~ yeah, that didn't happen.
Looking for a detailed explanation? The truth is, you're not interested in that - you prefer to blame the victim, shift the focus, and have the final say on how others are criticized for not understanding a severe illness that has been developing for years and was diagnosed long before a letter was sent more than 4 years after a period of total chaos.
You don't have time to list off all the grievances
But you will write a book on my lack of accountability for what, exactly?
Let's dive in, shall we?
Expanding on the complexities of communication breakdowns during times of trauma can shed light on the challenges individuals face in maintaining connections. The struggle to navigate through a situation where routine and consistency are disrupted can have profound effects on relationships. In this case, the attempt to reestablish communication through a legal channel underscores the desperation to bridge the gap that had widened over a significant period. The dynamics of blame and victimhood come into play when trying to make sense of the aftermath of trauma. It is not uncommon for misunderstandings to arise, leading to a lack of empathy or support for those grappling with severe illnesses. The narrative of shifting focus and critiquing others for their perceived lack of understanding highlights the complexities of interpersonal relationships in the face of adversity. The notion of grievances left unspoken hints at a deeper well of unresolved issues and emotional turmoil. It speaks to the weight of unaddressed concerns and the toll it can take on an individual's well-being. The call for accountability amidst chaos and confusion raises questions about the expectations placed on individuals to navigate challenging circumstances with grace and composure. In delving into these intricacies, it becomes apparent that the journey towards healing and reconciliation is multifaceted. It requires a willingness to confront uncomfortable truths, acknowledge past mistakes, and strive for mutual understanding. By exploring the nuances of personal experiences and interpersonal dynamics, we can gain insight into the complexities of human relationships and the resilience required to navigate through turbulent times.
What is the vague point you are trying to make?! Answer the questions - make the point!
What is the goal?
What is the gain?
Who do you think you are proving a point to?
Get the point! Dive deep - have the conversations!
Oh, right - it's abusive if I ask and share to have a real dialogue instead of daft and random sound bites to sound informed and interested in the real life of Alzheimer’s care versus an inept opinion based on nothingness.
Communication is a fundamental aspect of human interaction that plays a crucial role in building and maintaining relationships, whether they are personal or professional. It serves as a bridge that connects individuals, allowing them to express their thoughts, feelings, and ideas effectively. Effective communication involves not only speaking but also listening actively to understand the perspectives of others. When communication breaks down, misunderstandings can arise, leading to conflicts and strained relationships.
Despite the importance of communication, many people tend to avoid it due to various reasons such as fear of confrontation, lack of confidence, or past negative experiences. Avoiding communication can result in missed opportunities for growth, collaboration, and connection. It is essential to recognize the significance of open and honest communication in fostering healthy relationships and creating a positive environment.
Shall we continue?
“The drama is my own creation” is a good place to start.
How is that, exactly?!?
“The hardest pill for me to swallow and the purest and truest fact of all”
Ya sure about that?!? What do you know of the pride, ego, and ‘hardest pill’ I swallow? You don't know me. You have a preconceived notion based on the opinions of others or even your baseless and unfactual ‘knowledge’ of who you want me to be for your personal gain and narrative.
“I could go point by point…”
Let's do it! I'm here for it, take the time you need in vague innuendo and make it a real dialogue of truth and honesty for ALL.
“…creative content that suits my insanely skewed narrative...”
No content without the Others.
“…to gain attention to my ‘cause’.”
What is my ‘cause’?
Imma gonna stop here for a little clarity on my ‘cause’.
What do you know of the last 10-plus years and how it shaped up? One perception versus another. There was no empathy or kindness given in the beginning. No understanding of the role reversals or the challenges faced. No care is given by the outside world. Just accusations, blatant disgust, and vague ‘you know how you are’ chaos. Why do you think verbal chats ended and texts only, group texts only, and barely that? What the heck, you give me way too much power in your story without content for which I have none.
You don't “feel my pain” or even know what pains me. What you know is your perception of what you think. Opinion only.
Why is that, I wonder?
The answer is simple: you didn't care enough in the beginning and no longer have access ever again.
When did you last spend the day, evening, or even more than an hour of quality time with someone? When did you last see or communicate with me on a deeper level than accusing me of being a villainous person who ‘knows how I am’?
“The longest goodbye…” What do you know of it on this specific journey of the victim in this ‘creative content’? Assumptions only go so far, and then you are left with the empty shell of what could have been; never fully realizing the damage done.
"... doesn't give you the right to bash others when they gave up..."
So, not my problem they gave up on the one and only VICTIM!!! Anyone who has the guts to spew nonsense and complete bullshit. She didn't give up on any of the others and unfortunately for me, won't ever~
Would you like to have access to the videos of the character analyses we conduct every morning and evening?
Just so you know, the most disheartening aspect is that this blog is the only place where you can discover genuine and accurate information alongside some obscure details. Other sources are entirely inaccessible to me now and will never regain the access or influence they once had. The only exception is the one who should be posing the crucial question.
Is it worthwhile to create divisions and take sides? At some point in the future, you will have to answer that question for yourself. I know my answer.
“You are aware of the actual truth…”
Indeed, would you like me to delve into specifics? The search for the item that was taken 2 1/2 years ago continues daily... and the most sincere explanation for why this location was locked down and its boundaries firmly established, with or without resistance.
Misunderstandings, especially deliberate ones, are not a challenge I face.
“… failing to take responsibility for your own actions…”
Really, what does that even mean? In what situations have I not taken responsibility?
I am the one who stands firm. I am the one who controls chaos. I am the sole person present every day, reaching out to others only when prompted by the sole individual seeking connection. Once they, you, them, or anyone else grasps this, a way forward will be revealed.
Want to villainize me? Go at it with all your might, but if you want the purest form of truth and honesty, here it is.
The 'show more' was never read as we were cleaning and steaming carpets this morning. I'm sure there was plenty there to unpack, but alas, one will never know.
Who is the victim you speak of? It sure as hell isn't me. I agreed when asked, and I continue to do as asked as best I can for safety and well-being... If you can't get on board with that, it's not my problem - not my fight.
Caregiving in this journey is about assuming my role as the personal assistant to the only one calling all the fucking shots. You don't like it, Take it up with the one, I'm sure that will be fun for all.
This dialogue dates back to 2018...
Let's be specific and embrace the truest, purest form of complete honesty.
When it mattered, it didn't to the others.
Now that the path is set, it matters to the others ~ but it seems irreversible.
Why are you still interested in my 'creative content' that only a few read?! Blissfully unaware seems to be a good look, rock it!
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