Following a recent episode of Diary of Dazey Thoughts, a guest made some comments that have prompted me to address specific allegations. The discussion took place just 20 hours ago on a post that is three months old, demonstrating significant interaction with the content. It is always intriguing to revisit older posts and observe how they continue to generate conversations over time. In this instance, the guest's remarks have brought a fresh perspective to the topic, prompting me to reconsider the original content and explore alternative viewpoints. It is crucial to engage with differing opinions in a positive manner, as they often offer valuable insights and a deeper comprehension of the subject. By delving further into this dialogue, we have the chance to enhance the conversation and foster a more inclusive and diverse community of readers and contributors.
"Most people who say 'I don't play games' or Lie usually start it all."
I apologize, but auto-correct and spell check insisted we clean up the sentence in the picture above. A couple of Dazey Thoughts come to mind:
I'm not like most people. Throughout my life, I have been aware of my role and the people involved. I have worked alongside someone, owned property, and been friends with her for over 30 years. When I turned 23, she and I became business partners to help her recover from the financial difficulties caused by her ex. We split the LLC 51/49 as partners, and I owned the first salon on paper.
I purchased the first house, sold it two years later, and then we bought the second one together with a 50/50 split. This cycle continued over time.
We argued, disagreed, and worked together with a bond you will never understand because you don't have it.
I don't have to play games or lie; I still live it today.
Do you even know this is the longest she has ever lived in one place for more than 7 years for 55 fucking years?!?
This narrative illustrates a unique and enduring relationship that transcends typical partnerships. The bond described here is not just about business or property ownership; it's about shared experiences, struggles, and triumphs. The journey of becoming business partners after overcoming financial challenges showcases resilience and unwavering support. The commitment to each other is evident in the equal distribution of responsibilities and assets, highlighting a true partnership built on trust and mutual respect. The story also delves into the complexities of the relationship, acknowledging that disagreements and arguments are natural even in the strongest of partnerships. However, what sets this bond apart is the ability to work through differences and emerge stronger together. The authenticity and honesty in their interactions are emphasized, contrasting with superficial connections that rely on deceit and manipulation. The reference to the longevity of living in one place for more than seven years after 55 years adds a poignant layer to the narrative. It hints at a history of instability and change, making the current stability and partnership even more significant. The shared history and deep understanding between the individuals involved create a connection that is truly profound and enduring.
Same question from me 3 years later:
Why would I start a conflict to make her life more difficult, which only puts strain on mine and those close to me?
"You hide behind a computer screen and copy and paste but to scared to dare say what you type."
Your unedited words are posted anonymously. I shared the picture... I'm not avoiding, just trying to bring order to the chaos in my life. You all are like an unpaid job to me, this Dazey Diary wouldn't be possible without the contributions of others. I wouldn't need to seek professional help to affirm that I am fine dealing with the constant criticisms from others. You are the sole source of stress and concern in our lives. It's time to mature or get a new perspective... time is running out for you.
"Putting people's lives in the public general is starting shit, which you obviously do quite well."
It seems that your existence is not centered here, but rather on the individual who binds us together.
I am not familiar with your personal life.
I am unaware of your daily activities or your social circles, and I have not inquired about them.
Moreover, I never involve any of you in conversations with her.
Nevertheless, I frequently hear about all of you when she encounters difficulties.
Some time ago, I was questioned about why I chose not to disconnect from all of you and cease all communication.
The answer is always the same: she hasn't given up and I won't break my promises to her. That's the best of it, we fight the fight till she gives up. I won't quit her.
" This is all about you and how you are pissed off that you are taking care of the one programmed to love you. SO SAD!"
This journey has never been about me. It's about the person I am grateful to accompany. She chose the current path we are on, and I willingly agreed. She owned two properties, but due to others, she barely lived in them. She decided to sell them and live under our roof. Her life is here because of everyone else, not hers. It's deplorable to send her down a problematic path each time someone throws a temper tantrum, and others comply.
You write "programmed" as if she's a puppet. How dare you belittle her existence. How deplorable are you to send her down this path each time you have a temper tantrum and the others are compliant with it?
Repeatedly, I pose my inquiries to a group that consistently avoids responding and fails to confront the stark contrast between reality and their distorted perception.:
Who's hiding?
What is my end game?
What is your end game?
What do you hope to achieve?
Why would I or anyone here go to such lengths?
What the actual fuck?????
I was sent a text last night after she had locked up for the night. That led to a 3-hour conversation about the Others and the challenges. I have videos of most to help when the context fades and the content is forever lost. It was a system created a few years back for clarity and to calm her. She will re-watch herself and hear her words when the times are rough and a reset hasn't formed. Technology has become our friend, not an enemy to be feared.
She has been sheltered from the majority of this over the years by the ones closest to her. The truce ending was not mentioned in this house until the blocking started and copies of the texts of this blog were sent to her, reminding her that there are real problems that were never addressed or fixed in the long relationships formed by a bad decision in judgment that can never be erased. However, it keeps coming in waves from another person and never seems to end.
Day 4 of this bullshit. I ask about double standards and they are at war for what?
Amidst the chaos of conflicting emotions and external pressures, the solace found in technology becomes a beacon of hope. These videos, carefully crafted to preserve moments of clarity and reassurance, serve as a lifeline in turbulent times. The power of revisiting one's own words, captured in the past, offers a unique form of self-reflection and guidance. As the waves of uncertainty and challenges continue to crash, the reliance on these digital memories becomes a testament to resilience and adaptation in the face of adversity.
"you know how she is"
NO! No one else knows what it means... No details, no explanations except for vague saltiness looking a lot like greed and hate.
What is it that makes it so hard to see it through her eyes and ours?? Your relationships are your own, not mine. What you create, I can no longer help fix. When will you learn???
The complexity of human relationships often lies in the intricate web of emotions, perceptions, and experiences that shape our interactions with others. It can be challenging to truly understand someone else's perspective, especially when emotions like greed and hate cloud our judgment. The struggle to empathize and see things from another person's point of view can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. In the midst of these challenges, it is crucial to recognize the boundaries that exist within relationships. Each individual's journey is unique, and what one person creates in their relationships may not be easily understood or fixed by others. It requires a level of acceptance and respect for the autonomy of each person's experiences and choices. Learning from these interactions is a continuous process that requires introspection and growth. It is through reflection and understanding that we can navigate the complexities of relationships more effectively. By acknowledging our limitations and striving to learn from our experiences, we can cultivate healthier and more fulfilling connections with those around us.
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