When I started this blog, my goal was to find a way to document and navigate the chaos caused by jealousy and spiteful behavior. It wasn't intended for public consumption; rather, it was a means to keep a record of the challenges related to short-term memory and the confusion resulting from others' lack of understanding about Alzheimer's disease and the complexities of perception versus reality in this new world we live in.
Today, the blog has evolved into a mix of factual information, personal records, and a comparison of different perspectives - "us" versus "them." This reflects the ever-changing nature of reality, encapsulating the past, present, and a glimpse into the future.
The emotional toll that caregivers bear due to mistreatment from many individuals is significant. In its way, Dazey Dog serves as a source of therapy. I am grateful to those who have unwittingly trained me to be who I am today, and who will shape who I become in the future, be it tomorrow, next month, or the years to come. Additionally, the documentation serves as a paper trail to refute the unfounded accusations and name-calling I have endured, often based on the psychological concept of projecting one's actions onto others.
One has to question the end result wanted or the goals:
What is your ultimate goal?
What is mine?
Do you know?
Who are you harming?
What do you gain?
What do I gain?
If you play with the bull, you will get the horn.Lester said this on one of his visits deep into cognitive issues when he thought I was his sister on the dairy farm. He was 76, and I was barely 18.
Are you feeling excluded? Are you feeling left out because of someone else? Do you even realize it? The conversation about double standards discussed on the blog wasn't private; it was on speaker with others around. It's no longer difficult to prove who said what, even if you've become smarter and stopped putting your rant in text for one to read repeatedly.
What do any of you know about reality here? 3-10 minute conversations or a 45-minute lunch where the one only wants to feel and be treated as though everything in the world of short-term memory is normal, not confused, and without context…
You don't live in my world, and if you wrote this, you are one of the few who have the guts to think you know and judge based on your ill-conceived ego-driven prideful stupidity. What do you learn in 10 minutes of video or phone chats? One-hour holiday pickups - can't even make an outing long enough to get a clue because nothing is more important than your needs or wants in your own life.
Come at me - I always have receipts with this crew.
I'll do as you do.
If I were to delay responding to a simple question or update for days, I would face severe criticism. However, I'm currently facing condemnation for questioning double standards and stating, "Fine, I'll just do it your way and ignore the consequences..." Day 2 of foolishness arose due to someone's malicious and envious behavior. I am drained and will end it here - the guardian had given up on me long before it was crucial. It wasn't me abandoning him. The rest gave up on me when I refused to tolerate the disorder and returned to a peaceful life with less drama and none of the chaos brought into my home. As they could no longer benefit from her or me.
Perhaps the next blog post will delve into the hypocrisy of the others and who truly lives the fictional life I'm accused of projecting...
Caring for someone with Alzheimer's symptoms in memory care can be an emotionally and physically demanding task that impacts not only the individual receiving care but also those closely involved in the caregiving process. The challenges of managing the symptoms of Alzheimer's, such as memory loss, confusion, and behavioral changes, can take a toll on caregivers as they strive to provide the best possible support and assistance.
In this context, maintaining consistency and a structured routine becomes crucial for the well-being and quality of life of the person with Alzheimer's. Consistency helps reduce feelings of confusion and disorientation, providing stability and security for the individual. A predictable routine can also help manage behavioral issues and improve overall mood and cognitive function.
Caregivers need to set up a daily routine that incorporates consistent activities, meals, and breaks to provide a familiar and reassuring setting for individuals with Alzheimer's. By including activities like word puzzles (with "Words with Friends" being a preferred choice on this journey), music therapy, reading, watching "Perry Mason," or gentle exercises that engage both the mind and body, caregivers can support cognitive function and overall physical well-being.
Creating a strong support network is essential for caregivers to prevent burnout and maintain their well-being. Seeking assistance from healthcare professionals, support groups, or respite care services can provide much-needed relief and guidance for caregivers facing the challenges of caring for someone with Alzheimer's. Friends and family are important sources of support as well.
Overall, caring for someone with Alzheimer's symptoms in memory care facilities can be an emotionally and physically draining experience for caregivers. The constant need for attention, the challenges in communication, and the progressive nature of the disease can take a toll on the individual receiving care and the caregivers involved in the process.
Caregivers must prioritize consistency and routine in their care approach. Establishing a structured daily routine can help individuals with Alzheimer's feel more secure and comfortable in their environment. Consistency in caregiving practices, such as maintaining familiar schedules and environments, can also reduce confusion and anxiety for the individual.
Self-care is essential for caregivers to maintain their well-being while providing care for others. Taking breaks, seeking support from other caregivers or professionals, and engaging in activities that bring joy and relaxation are all important aspects of self-care for caregivers.
When caregivers feel overwhelmed or unsupported, it can lead to burnout and decreased quality of care for the individual with Alzheimer's. Caregivers need to recognize their limits and seek help when needed, whether through respite care services, support groups, or counseling.
It can be challenging when the outside world, including friends, family, or even medical professionals, believes they know better than the caregivers doing the 24/7 work. This lack of understanding can be frustrating and isolating for caregivers, potentially hindering the quality of care provided to the individual with Alzheimer's.
Ultimately, by prioritizing consistency, routine, and self-care, caregivers can help improve the quality of life for both the individual with Alzheimer's and themselves. Caregivers need to advocate for their needs, seek support when necessary, and approach caregiving with compassion and understanding.
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