When I wrote this, I might have forgotten the golden rule - don't explain, don't defend, don't ignore.
The platinum rule:
If I die or bleed out - that's fine as long as no one is uncomfortable or inconvenienced in their own personal stories of how awful I am and how I am the root of all evil. You need someone to blame for all the things, you're welcome.
I'll do my best to remember in the future. Please check out the Comment Section Blog post for all of your discontent, judging/blaming, and overall hatred.
Or...
Stop stalking me.
Stop harassing me.
Stop blaming me for ALL the things —
'No other platform hosted 'Another side' and most other posts besides this one, yet you all visit here several times a day and share your thoughts extensively. Cease directing all the frustration and accusations towards me.'
If you desired to converse outside a public platform, you had the opportunity or still do. The posts have not disappeared; they have merely returned to their rightful place, private for the time being.
Just to be clear, I did not read all your comments as I skipped most of the previous ones, which were filled with anger.
Those who engage in discussions and pass judgment on matters they are not familiar with contribute to the difficulties we face. We bear the consequences of all actions taken by others.
You are unaware because you choose not to be informed. There is a lot of judgment being spread, just saying.
Everyone has taken a seat at the adult table of their own choice...
If you are part of her circle, you are part of the discussion.
My message remains consistent~
Dazey Diary, as it has been referred to, is a collection of all the people, all the events, all the obstacles. Not just one - united for a common purpose~dislike me.
If it seemed specific, personal, or a direct attack - for a particular challenge... maybe consider what brought all of us to this point. I do so daily.
When I accused, pleaded, became insistent, and faced the brick wall, I did so openly and do so directly. It was all through private or group messages. When I pleaded for others to assist with the major chaotic issue, you all chose to 'be okay' with the mistreatment and the conflict.
"Not your concern, just deal with it" and ignore it,
Blame and deflect.
The assistance you refer to is not the assistance I require.
The assistance I needed and still seem to beg for is the cessation of chaos and drama for the one in need.
I am resilient, I don't care. Challenge me, I'll respond more strongly and concisely. I won't deceive for someone else, and I won't retreat.
That approach no longer applies here!!!!!
Never, ever again!
Verbal private conversations terminated.
Written private conversations terminated.
Group conversations terminated.
Here we are...
'She truly needs help. She's unstable. She's unkind to me. I dislike the tone of your words. I dislike being held accountable for my actions, or lack of care - empathy - understanding - need for structure. You're being extreme. You're a vicious, world-class bitch. You can't force me. Blah blah blah..."
Please remember the following text:
All my words are ambiguous, except mine in the court of public opinion. Last month or last year, I took responsibility for my words. Have any of you recognized the impact of your words? Everyone who does not live in MY HOME took responsibility for anything that was not my fault.
The truth that resonates the most is the one that matters, whether for oneself or loved ones.
It is the truth that nobody seeks.
No one wants to accept it.
The real truth, not just a perception, is contained in words that cause pain and shape the course of present and future events.
Don't linger here~
You ALL took/take offense.
Yet for specific and personal reasons,
not all mine~
this statement was made.
So much drama was stirred up from such an innocent statement of what was required for peace, structure, and the well-being of the individual I serve~
To establish a tranquil and consistent environment in a world of fear and confusion. No one bothers to consider the entirety of my words, only their own individual interpretation leading to distress and turmoil.
The extensive destruction~ for what??
I pose the question once more:
What do I gain?
What advantages do I receive?
What is MY ultimate objective?
Why is there a lawyer involved?
Have you ever taken a moment to truly contemplate the profound implications stemming from the collective actions of all others? The consequences of individual decisions and actions intertwine to form an intricate network of influence that has the power to greatly affect not just their own lives but also those of others. Understanding how our actions are interconnected and the ripple effects they produce is crucial. By understanding the consequences of "All Of the Others' actions," we gain a deeper insight into the intricate dynamics of society and the importance of personal responsibility in shaping our shared reality.
The door was always open outside of your perception of how it came to be; the entrance to the cottage is still available for those who want it to be in the future.
For a change to occur, communication, scheduling, and boundaries must be established. If you wish to distinguish yourself from the previous group of Others, you must remove yourself.
This is how:
Honest communication.
Structure and routine.
Respect the boundaries.
Stop including others when it will only cause conflict.
Triangulation and chaos. I did not create it. Y'all give me too much credit for things I have no power in, yet I will remain the brick wall for the good of one. The only one.
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